What is Abuse

Physical abuse could include:

• hitting
• being locked in a room
• slapping
• force-feeding – making you eat something you don’t want to or an amount you don’t want to
• pushing
• kicking
• inappropriate methods of restraint
• burning
• misuse of medication
• scalding
• biting
• unnecessary use of medical equipment
• invasive procedures
• inappropriate sanctions

Signs or indicators of physical abuse might include:

• unexplained/explained injuries
• bruises in various stages of healing
• bruises inconsistent with falls
• moving between agencies e.g. GP & A&E
• burns on unlikely areas of the body
• unexplained cuts or scratches to mouth, lips, gums, eyes or external genitalia
• untypical self harm
• reluctance to undress
• history of injury
• sudden and unexplained urinary and/or faecal incontinence
• evidence of over/under medication
• person flinches at physical contact
• person asks not to be hurt
• person appears frightened or subdued in the presence of particular people

Domestic Abuse is any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are, or have been, intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality.

Domestic violence & abuse includes:

• psychological abuse
• physical abuse
• sexual abuse
• financial abuse
• emotional abuse.

Family members include; mother, father, son, daughter, brother, sister, and grandparents, whether directly related, in laws or step-family.

What are the signs of domestic abuse?

They’re not always as obvious as you might think. That’s because domestic abuse is about controlling someone’s mind and emotions as much as hurting their body. Being abused can leave victims scared and confused.

Signs someone is being abused

Keep an eye out for things like:

• May have unexplained bruises/injuries, and may give other reasons for the injuries which refer to them being accidental
• Personality changes, like low self-esteem in someone who was always confident/becoming unusually quiet or withdrawn
• Constantly checking in with their partner/overly worried about pleasing their partner
• Never having money on hand
• Skipping out on social interaction for no clear reason
• Wearing clothes that don’t fit the season, like long sleeves in summer to cover bruises
• Has panic attacks
• Has frequent absences from work or other commitments
• Stops talking about her/his partner
• May never be seen alone, and is always accompanied by their partner
• May become more isolated, withdrawing from friends and family
• Go along with everything their partner says and does
• Check in often with their partner to report where they are and what they’re doing

Information and support:

Cheshire is 'opening the door' on unhealthy relationships.

• Are you, or someone you know, in a relationship that doesn’t feel quite right?
• Is one person in the relationship controlling, manipulative, abusive, or violent?
• If so, this is an unhealthy relationship and is defined as domestic abuse.

What happens behind closed doors doesn’t have to stay there.

The Open The Door website has been designed to help you if you, or someone you know, is in relationship that doesn’t feel quite right. Cheshire is opening the door on unhealthy relationships to bring domestic abuse out into the open.

Other resources

Information and support about domestic abuse on the BBC website

Visit the Refuge domestic abuse website

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This can include adults being forced to engage in sexual activity against their will (or because they cannot consent). Sexual abuse is not solely perpetrated by adult males. Women can also commit acts of sexual abuse, as can children.

Sexual Abuse Examples:

• rape
• being made to perform a sexual act
• assault by penetration (penetration with an object)
• persuasion or coercion into sexual activity
• un/wanted touching
• exposed to pornographic material
• verbal harassment
• any sexual relationship that develops between adults where one is in a position of trust, power or authority

Indicators of sexual abuse can be;

• urinary tract infections
• sexually transmitted infections
• pain, itching, bleeding
• unexplained problems with catheters
• being subdued and withdrawn
• having poor concentration
• a disclosure is made
• sexualised behaviour
• significant changes in behaviour
• clothing is torn, stained or bloody
• a woman who lacks capacity to consent becomes pregnant
• untypical use of sexual language

Support

If you think you have been raped you can contact RASASC Specialist Sexual Violence Support for Cheshire and Merseyside between the hours Monday to Friday 9.00 until 4.00.

Information and helpline: 0330 363 0063

Warrington: 01925 221546

Cheshire East: 01260 697900

Cheshire West & Chester: 01244 907710

Halton: 01928 477980

Knowsley: 0151 218 7960

St. Helens: 01744 877987

If you need to speak to someone for emotional support/advice out of these hours here are a number of options:

• Rape & Sexual Abuse Support Centre (National Free Helpline for men/women/family members) open every day 12noon-2.30pm and 7pm-9.30pm on 0808 802 9999 or visit their website: www.rapecrisis.org.uk/
• Samaritans (24hr emotional support line): 08457 90 90 90
• National Association for People Abused in Childhood (helpline weekdays and evenings): 0808 801 0331
• Survivors UK (Helpline for male survivors of rape/sexual abuse open 7pm-10pm Mon/Tue/Thu): 0845 122 1201

Persistent emotional ill-treatment of a person. It may involve; conveying that they are worthless or unloved, inadequate, or valued only insofar as they meet the needs of another person, not giving them opportunities to express their views, deliberately silencing them or ‘making fun’ of what they say or how they communicate  It may involve seeing or hearing the ill-treatment of another (domestic abuse).

Psychological Abuse Examples:

• threats of harm or abandonment
• deprivation of contact
• humiliation
• rejection
• blaming
• controlling
• verbal abuse (shouting or swearing)
• coercion
• indifference
• harassment
• isolation
• removing choice
• playing “mind games”
• intimidation
• withdrawal from services or support networks

Indicators of Psychological abuse include;

• untypical lack of interest, passivity or resignation
• anxious or withdrawn (possibly in the presence of the abuser)
• untypical changes in behaviour
• person is not allowed visitors or phone calls
• unexplained paranoia
• confusion, agitation
• coercion
• possible violation of human and/or civil rights
• distress caused by being locked in a home or car
• isolation – no visitors or phone calls allowed
• inappropriate clothing
• sensory deprivation
• person is locked in a room or their home
• person is denied access to aids or equipment, e.g. glasses, hearing aid, crutches, health checks
• they appear depressed or low in mood
• they seem anxious
• low self esteem
• ambivalence about carer
• fearfulness, avoiding eye contact, flinching on approach
• deference
• insomnia or the need for excessive sleep
• change in appetite
• unusual weight loss/gain
• tearfulness
• restricted access to hygiene facilities
• lack of personal respect
• lack of recognition of individual rights
• carer does not offer personal hygiene, medical care or regular food or drinks
• use of furniture to restrict movement.

Financial abuse could involve theft of money or possessions, fraud, scamming. Carers or friends/family or acquaintances preventing a person from accessing their own money/benefits, arranging less care than is needed to save money, or misusing direct payments. Someone moving into a persons home or living rent free without agreement or under duress.

Examples of financial abuse include:

• theft
• fraud
• exploitation
• pressure in connection with Wills or property
• withholding of money
• misappropriation of property or benefits
• bribery
• unauthorised use of a person’s money or property
• borrowing money from service users
• use of utilities
• accepting gifts
• who keeps the “get one free” or the “points?”
• doing your own shopping on the service users time

Indicators of Financial Abuse include;

• Change in living conditions
• Lack of heating, clothing or food
• Inability to pay bills/unexplained shortage of money
• Unexplained withdrawals from an account
• Unexplained loss/misplacement of financial documents
• The recent addition of authorised signers on a client or donor’s signature card
• Sudden or unexpected changes in a will or other financial documents
• lack of money, especially after benefit day
• recent acquaintances expressing sudden or disproportionate interest in the person and their money
• “red” bills or services disconnected
• change in appearance (becoming dishevelled)
• disparity between assets/income and living conditions
• recent changes of deeds/title of house
• items missing
• Internet scams, postal scams and doorstep crime are, more often than not, targeted at adults at risk and all are forms of financial abuse.

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Traffickers and slave masters use whatever means they have at their disposal to coerce, deceive and force individuals into a life of abuse, servitude and inhumane treatment.

Examples of Modern Slavery include;

• Slavery
• Unpaid work
• No human rights
• Human trafficking
• Forced and compulsory labour
• Poor living conditions, access to amenities
• Domestic servitude
• Traffickers and slave masters use whatever means they have at their disposal to coerce, deceive and force individuals into a life of abuse, servitude and inhumane treatment.

Indicators of Modern Slavery include;

• Forced to work - through mental or physical threat;
• Owned or controlled by an 'employer', usually through mental or physical abuse or the threat of abuse;
• Dehumanised, treated as a commodity or bought and sold as 'property';
• Physically constrained or has restrictions placed on his/her freedom of movement.
• Signs of physical or emotional abuse
• Appear malnourished, unkempt or withdrawn
• Poor or overcrowded home conditions
• Working and living at the same address.

If you think that someone is the victim of Modern Slavery you can ring the Modern Slavery National Helpline on 08000 121 700.

Discriminatory abuse exists when values, beliefs or culture result in a misuse of power that denies opportunity to some groups or individuals. It can be a feature of any form of abuse of an adult, but can also be motivated because of age, gender, sexuality, disability, religion, class, culture, language, race or ethnic origin.

Examples of Discriminatory abuse are;

• comments or jokes that are racist, sexist, homophobic, ageist or based on a person’s disability
• any other form of abuse based on prejudice
• not providing for an individual’s cultural or religious beliefs
• not providing accessible services
• ignoring sexual orientation of service users
• intentional and/or unintentional withholding of information, e.g. information not being available in different formats/languages
• name calling
• belittling
• no treatment because “they’ve had a good innings”
• not providing for people's spiritual needs

Indicators of Discriminatory abuse are;

• observation of oppressive practice
• person becomes isolated from others
• person stops “practising” their beliefs
• person stops asking for needs to be met
• changes behaviour to fit in with group
• physical health deteriorates
• withdrawal

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Includes neglect and poor care practice within an institution or specific care setting such as a hospital or care home, or where care is provided within an adults own home.

Organisational abuse occurs when the routines, systems and regimes of an institution result in poor or inadequate standards of care and poor practice which affect the whole setting and deny, restrict or curtail the dignity, privacy, choice, independence or fulfilment of adults with care and support needs.

This may range from one off incidents to on-going ill-treatment.

Potential indicators of organisational abuse

It is important not to jump to the wrong conclusions too quickly but the following list may be possible indicators of organisational abuse:

• no flexibility in bedtime routine and/or deliberate waking
• people left on a commode or toilet for long periods of time
• inappropriate care of possessions, clothing and living area
• lack of personal clothes and belongings
• un-homely or stark living environments
• deprived environmental conditions and lack of stimulation
• inappropriate use of medical procedures such as enemas, catheterisation
• batch care – lack of individual care programmes
• illegal confinement or restrictions
• inappropriate use of power or control
• people referred to, or spoken to, with disrespect
• inflexible services based on convenience for the provider rather than the person receiving services
• inappropriate physical intervention
• service user removed from the home or establishment, without discussion with other appropriate people or agencies because staff are unable to manage the behaviour

Neglect is the persistent failure to meet a person’s basic physical and or psychological needs, likely to result in the serious impairment of the health or development.

Examples of neglect include;

• failure to provide access to appropriate health, social care or educational services
• failure to intervene in situations that are dangerous to the person concerned or to others, particularly when the person lacks the mental capacity to assess risk for themselves.
• withholding of the necessities of life such as medication, adequate nutrition, heating and social contact
• not providing enough staff to meet the needs of the client group.
• taking “shortcuts” that result in harm, e.g. when moving and handling, bathing
• ignoring medical / personal care needs
• inappropriate use of continence aids
• leaving someone in soiled clothes, beds, pads
• missing calls and appointments

Indicators of Neglect include;

• person has inadequate heating and/or lighting
• physical condition deteriorates
• confusion due to dehydration, infection, hypothermia
• person is exposed to unacceptable risk
• callers/visitors are refused access to the person
• pressure areas developing or not healing
• weight loss
• no access to appropriate medication or medical care
• no privacy or dignity
• change in appearance, poor skin and hair
• smell of urine
• dried faeces in pubic hair or under fingernails

Self-Neglect covers a wide range of behaviour neglecting to care for one’s personal hygiene, health or surroundings and includes behaviour such as hoarding.

Self-Neglect differs from other forms of abuse because it does not involve a perpetrator.

It is seen in all ages but is more common in older people. It covers a wide range of behaviour neglecting to care for ones personal hygiene, health or surroundings and includes behaviour such as hoarding.

Adults may present with a variety of conditions such as substance misuse, self harm, depression, history of trauma or bereavement.

Examples of Self Neglect include;

• Refusal of personal care
• Refusal of medication
• Refusal of other interventions
• Inability (intentional or non-intentional) to maintain a socially and culturally accepted standard of self-care
• Hoarding

Signs of Self Neglect include;

• Poor self-care leading to a decline in personal hygiene
• Poor nutrition
• Poor healing/sores
• Poorly maintained clothing
• Long toenails
• Isolation
• Failure to take medication
• Hoarding large numbers of pets

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